Our Weakness Leads Us To Equality So We Can Return To Our Tenderness
“That which is perceived as weak is more likely actual strength.”
The feminine/yin force drives the right hemisphere of our brain, which innately grasps the fundamental unity that is always and already present between all of us.
It can also be understood as the subconscious mind, which connects all of us to one another known as the unified field or collective consciousness.
The masculine/yang force drives the left hemisphere of our brain, which innately perceives through differentiation and seeks to understand by dividing and naming.
It is understood to be our conscious mind, and defined as our ego, which expresses itself as separate from the whole and operates in ways that considers itself and not the other.
We currently live a world that is imbalanced due to being dominated by the masculine/yang force, or ego and separation, resulting in weakness from being divided from the feminine/yin force that grasps unity and the unified field that naturally exists between all of us.
With this imbalance there is no way to feel unity nor support by the whole, which is also related to the root of fear. This results in a lack of trust and the ability to give only with the assurance of getting something back.
When the feminine/yang force is balanced with the the masculine/yang force, it results in having access to grasping the holistic essence of life along with personal self-expression, which is where our collective future lies.
This will also allow all of us to all connect and give with our heart allowing us to receive far more in return and reach ultimate unity with the balance between both forces.
Weakness then is ultimately the imbalance or inequality between the feminine/yin force and the masculine/yang force inside all of us.
Weakness then exists as an outward expression of an internal imbalance and inequality which is what we currently experience as what doesn’t work in our world today. This is not to be confused with gender.
Historically, men have been physically stronger and favored due to our evolutionary need of survival that required strength and drove the concept of the survival of the fittest and supported the imbalance of the two forces we are working with today.
As we look forward to a balanced future, in order to support our present moment, reflecting on our past with judgement or division only serves to keep the imbalance alive.
As we look back we can become more educated on how to put into practice the feminine/yin force which brings a holistic approach that generates greater harmony and ultimate transcendence from imbalance.
While this is a generalization and many exceptions exist, the traditional heteronormative family structure in the west most clearly reflects weakness and why we are experiencing its natural demise, especially when rooted in religious beliefs.
In these traditional systems, when the wife often becomes financially dependent and compliant in her yin/yang imbalance she submits to a partner who is also out of balance. Her husband’s leadership then, if upheld by religious doctrine, is reinforced by community structures built on the same imbalance, demanding conformity in order to maintain belonging and perceived harmony within her tribe.
While both parties are imbalanced, it reinforces a system that weakens both partners, and disproportionately burdens the wife who is financial dependent, emotionally suppressed and indoctrinated in the beliefs that reinforce the imbalance as good, right, real and true.
As a result, the entire family unit, along with their community, operates inside of a framework where the imbalance is reinforced and normalized as love, obedience, and faithfulness and exhaustion and disempowerment are the internal experiences that must be denied and repressed and even in some cases worshiped as ideal as the natural byproducts of this dynamic.
While the inverse dynamic, a woman being the dominate force over man, is equally exhausting, the primary issue here is not about gender. It is how culturally it is the more reinforced dynamic as religious institutions fight to defend “traditional family values” rooted in fear of losing control of their ideal structure of marriage as designed by God rather than what is needed for genuine thriving and universal harmony of all humanity.
As the repressed feminine/yin force in the human psyche seeks balance inside all of us, it will continue to challenges these traditional structures causing both internal and external upheaval, which is necessary for the evolution of society into harmony.
This will only gain speed and traction as we move beyond old boundaries and definitions and will result in entirely new socio-economic structures being generated alongside the dissolution of other socio-economic structures.
It is common to think men’s time is over and now it’s time for the women, and is what we’ve seen take place as women leave the home to work and have institutions raise their children.
This thinking still operates within weakness as it over-emphasizes one side of the two forces and ultimately leads women into competition and hierarchy which will ultimately be dissolved once the two forces balance which is required to reach peace, love, happiness, harmony and our already embodied unity as a human family.
When approached in an over-generalized manner, men traditionally can not see holistically unless they have done the work to balance their two forces and women attempt to address the problem from a disempowered state of the ego using logic which typically generates additional pain and separation.
A key indicator we’re headed in the direction of balance between these two forces is when we no longer over identify with gender and the ways in which it is expected to be expressed within socio-economic structures.
It is only now the balancing can begin to take place as we have reached a stage in evolution where physical strength is no longer valued in the same way it once was. In fact, it’s actually reversing and what was once seen as weak is being seen as strong and vice versa and also a sign of the transition from the Age of Pisces, to the Age of Aquarius.
The universal patterns we have used to get us here, where the masculine/yang force moves towards the top of a hierarchy is losing it’s power and influence where those who value the feminine/yin force of unity and synthesis are gaining power which is transforming our world.
Weakness was a mark of the Age of Pisces, and our understanding and interpretation, and subsequent misinterpretation, was heavily influenced by the life of Jesus Christ and changed how we culturally related to weakness and sustained ourselves inside of the impact of this imbalance to evolve us into where we are today.
In the story of Jesus Christ, he surrendered to forces that overpowered him. His God wanted his sacrifice, and he surrendered to this to give his embodied example of how to balance the imbalance of theses two forces. That our strength must come from weakness to bring peace on earth, as strength in the prior age only sought to steal, kill, destroy and overpower that which was seen as weak so his embodiment taught us the power of resurrection and loving everyone equally.
It would be more accurate to look at something we perceive as weak as something that is not yet fully understood and nothing other than an imbalanced projection which drives the historically dominate world view of the masculine/yang force onto the feminine/yin force declaring the feminine/yin force as the weaker of the two.
The story of Jesus Christ will not diminish in the next age, the Age of Aquarius, as it will become better understood and focused on the feminine/yin force patterns of unity and synthesis which is ultimately the message Jesus Christ had to teach the world.
With many socio-economic structures that have existed for so long coming to an end, and the fundamental understanding of the story of Jesus Christ evolving into the balance of these two forces, it will result in the structure of religion having strong emotional reactions as it is rooted in division and worship found in it’s success from the imbalance.
This shift is so profound as it cannot be grasped through the masculine/yang force, the ego mind, through which these structures were built. These systems exist in a way that manages and sustains the very imbalance between yin and yang that gave rise to them.
To even begin discussions on these dynamics creates extreme distress as the mind cannot grasp the answers to these imbalances. This process of rebalancing then generates even more division, where everyone suffers and the children being the ones who suffer the most.
In addition, these structures have existed for so long as external crutches for weakness, that the idea of living without them triggers a deeper fear of weakness. Their removal threatens their false sense of strength resulting in an emotional charge that arises when these systems that have a long history of harm are questioned especially as we consider the universal impact of dissonance when harmony is possible.
Once the structures that sustain weakness have been removed, and new structures of unity and synthesis have been crated in their place, the balanced feminine/yin and masculine/yang forces will reveal our strength as we operate without crutches and shift from worship and division to unity and embodiment which the God Jesus Christ worshipped had him murdered to introduce as the possibility of balanced yin and yang forces as the truth he saw as possible for all of us all along.
“There is simply living out of the heart and everything else is secondary.”
When the imbalanced forces that generate weakness are balanced, equality becomes our great hope, and is misunderstood when approached from imbalanced yin/yang forces.
We are all born with the same basic genetic code containing the potential for equality yet born into families who condition our psyche to operate in an imbalanced way.
This is conditional love and those conditioned this way only in terms of strength and weakness making equality only a dream. This conditional giving is know as “bargaining” and woven into our world. This is what has driven our society giving those who thrive off our imbalance the rewards and where we give from fear with the desire to people please, be virtuous, control or avoid discomfort which does not come from the love from self and the balance of the yin/yang forces.
The masculine/yang dominated mind fears equality believing it will generate a homogenized way of being. True equality thrives on individuality and the human heart is the equalizing force as it illuminates imbalance in others by treating everyone as we treat our own self.
It is only within unconditional love, the balance of yin/yang, where there is no longer a game of winners and losers which makes everyone a victim. As we become aware the battle within for people-pleasing and self-abandonment a journey into the heart opens up called discernment.
Equality then is ultimately an internal perception compared to a fixed external reality. Our conditioning then shapes how we experience the expression of our self leading to our internal perception which when imbalanced creates a great disparity in how we then experience equality.
The family structure then is what drives humanity as a potent force for creativity and love and is the means through which we will recognize the power of the yin/yang forces balanced and carried by the coming generation.
The love between a parent and child is unconditional as it is about giving expecting nothing in return. And it is a very potent force in the universe and the sheer force of love contained in a family is second to none. The family is the most powerful crucible through which humanity will be transformed.
As children are born inside of families who work to balance their internal yin/yang forces, the new family structure will naturally take shape and will reveal new ways of implementing the communities we need.
From the human heart, all of humanity is one family. This is an all powerful truth rooted in the inner current of strength and love not some fantasy or dream. Without love we are always operating with weakness which will always create inequality. The current flaws of society can’t be ignored out they must be phased out and a new world will have to grow within the ashes of the old and built upon the rock of equality. And when the human psyche is balanced there will be no need for external religion. There will be no patriarchy or matriarchy, just simply one symbolic harmonic experience of the human family all experiencing life in harmony together.
When we begin to ask “What is true for me in this moment, from the wisdom of my heart?”, compared to “What is the right or good thing to do?”.
This is the beginning of equality as an inner state of balance compared to a social construct. We can give from our heat or we can give from our mind. And when we learn to give to our self first, we truly learn how to love ourselves and then the love for others flows naturally.
When we ask our self, “What do I need to feel supported right now?” And then honor the answer, both the giver (you) and the receiver (you) are nourished. You can then love others as you love yourself and this way of living and giving arises from deep trust in the wisdom of the heart.
To give to yourself in this way is an act of radical courage that grows through lived experience, heartbreak, and healing. Some will say trusting the wisdom of your heart is simple, and when it’s never been modeled it takes radical courage to choose what feels opposite in every way.
For those with religious conditioning it becomes even more complete and extreme to love yourself in this way. So while to some may it’s simple, to others it is quite complex and sacred.
Each step and choice toward developing the wisdom of the heart matters as giving to ones self and others from the heart is what leads us to the equality of the human family and The more we give is the more we receive is a true economic secret that is often misunderstood as it takes place inside condition and true giving cannot be faked. When we truly give it is an act of insanity to the mind.
The moment when giving is no longer transactional and a natural way of being love begins to flow without condition and harmony is sought compared to being cut off from here. We are then no longer caught in weakness and standing in a deeper kind of strength, one that honors both self and other, without the need to bargain for love.
From this level of equality, a new vision of the family can be born leading humanity to see we are all one human family and what makes us equal.
And as we build a new society around unconditional love and libration with the balance of the two forces our world will change very quickly. Friendship will be the universal mark of this embodied equality and ultimately the resonate form that holds family together and that the core principles that hold humanity together is empowerment and nourishment of the whole.
This will birth new social paradigms that will bring together business, education and family and put an end to isolated and separate groupings, especially the worship of an external god or authority, and create a new model for community through networking rooted in generosity compared to control.
Tenderness will slowly unite human beings and in its softness it is insurmountable, invincible and inevitable. Divine will is paired with tenderness and is a force that has us all in its sights.
Tenderness does not manifest thru a single individual. It’s not outside of us. It’s our collective inner nature. It’s the heart of the human family drawing individuals into an infinitely soft and loving embrace. It is the natural climate that surrounds families and children.
Through future young girls that great social change will be brought into the world.
Energetically the feminine/yin carries the vision for synthesis and the masculine/yang builds it, which is the generalized blueprint of the future where the masculine/yang serves the feminine/yin force.
The future for Family is a collective breath pattern that unites all and not an isolated tribal phenomenon, it’s the same vision Jesus Christ held as a natural state of humanity that he called “the kingdom of heaven”
Family is the structure that creates the aura of tenderness empowering individuals and supporting communities simultaneously. So what we see as a decline in the family unit is a redefining of what family really means.
… TO BE CONTINUED…
